Reviewing Elizabeth George's Just One Evil Act

Mysteries, especially English murder ones, have always been one of my favorite genres. So, any time an Elizabeth George novel is published I’m there. I first became aware of this American author when my niece, Kristin, gave me a copy of Missing Joseph, her sixth novel. I was immediately hooked. The setting was so incredibly described it was surely like another character in the book.

Then I became obsessed with reading all George’s previous books. Not just reading but collecting first edition hardcovers. I scoured so many independent, used bookstores especially in the Boston area and on Cape Cod. Another favorite bookstore of mine is BookmanBookwoman. If you are ever in Nashville TN you must check it out. This place is a treasure trove and may even have those books you have been looking for. This is what  I do with authors I love to read. It is a thrill when the hunt for a particular book is successful.

So, it is with a bit of a heavy heart that I write this review of the latest Lynley Series novel, Elizabeth George’s Just One Evil Act. You see back on September 21,1999 I went to a talk Ms George gave in Cambridge, MA while on a book tour for In Pursuit of the Proper Sinner. After the question and answer session I stood in line to get my copy of the book autographed such an exciting moment for me meeting this incredible author and all. I had long thought of her books as literature. Having a bit of a history with the author I was so looking forward to reading her latest book.

Sad to say Just One Evil Act was a difficult read for me. More than once I’m thinking I can’t continue reading this, it’s too long, I don’t seem to care what happens, I’m not invested in the characters etc etc. Let me say that Detective Sergeant Barbara Havers in particular was the source of my consternation. She had such a blind, annoying devotion to her neighbor, Azhar and his kidnapped daughter, Hadiyyah  that I just was not buying it. Barbara has always been a bit of a renegade which is one of things which made her a favorite of mine. Now I was trying to manage my feelings of not really caring what became of her or Azhar and Hadiyyah for that matter.  But the thoughts I was having about Barbara really hurt.

Barbara was so real to me. Never did I think that I would no longer care about a once beloved character. This is why it was so hard for me to get through the book. I’ve thought long and hard about whether I will continue to read the Lynley Series. I have read them all beginning with her first novel, A Great Deliverance published in 1988.  The feeling I have about Barbara is one of being deserted by an old friend whose actions crossed several lines of what you were accustomed to expecting. Some may call it character growth but for me it was in a negative way.

It is only fair to acknowledge that I may want to continue to learn more about Scotland Yard Inspector Thomas Lynley’s journey. One very bright spot in this book was Lynley beginning to find love again after the painful murder of his pregnant wife, Helen. So, it is likely that learning more about Thomas Lynley will be enough for me to give Elizabeth George’s next Lynley book a read.

Boston Red Sox and Their Disastrous 2012 Season

Mercifully the 2012 Boston Red Sox baseball season ended last Wednesday. It was painful and embarrassing to be a fan this year. What follows is some of how the team went from 90 wins in 2011 to their woeful 69-93 record this year .The first low point for me occurred when the Sox were cruising along in the 6th inning with a 9-0 lead against the New York Yankees. It was very early in the season April 21st when the Yankees would score 15 unanswered runs. Little did I know that kind of snowball effect would become a recurring theme. No lead was safe and those come from behind walk-off wins were as scarce as hen’s teeth.

Bobby Valentine was the new anti Teri Francona manager. The first fatal mistake we observed was when he called out Kevin Youkillis for what amounted to lack of concentration and passion. Youk was coming back from an injury riddled 2011 season and was soon to be traded. Bobby V’s mistakes were innumerable. After much heralded rookie 3rd baseman, Will Middlebrook, committed his second error in the same inning Valentine was heard to say “Nice inning, Will” How to be supportive and build the kid’s confidence! We learned much later that in spring training he had called out Mike Aviles during an infield drill. This led to several players meeting with Valentine in support of their teammate. 

Another move which didn’t sit well with teammates was when lefty Jon Lester was kept in a game by Valentine as he gave up 11 runs. It was July 22nd and the opponent was Toronto. Lester had a 5 run 1st inning. By the time he left after 4 innings he had given up 9 runs. Then we hear about Adrian Gonzalez and other players requesting a meeting with the owners. Apparently they felt that Lester was mistreated and they were taking their complaint to management.

Valentine was never able to build any rapport or respect with his players until it was much too late. In addition several of his coaches were openly rebellious and simply didn’t speak to him. This lack of communication with pitching, bench and bullpen coaches proved costly. To be fair Valentine did not have the courtesy from management of choosing his own coaching staff. Perhaps he never really had a chance to succeed. Sabotage at the outset? 

Then we had the block-buster trade between the Red Sox and LA Dodgers on August 25th. Pitcher Josh Beckett, 1st baseman Adrian Gonzalez, injured outfielder Carl Crawford and reserve infielder Nick Punto to LA. Coming to Boston 1st baseman James Loney, pitcher Allen Webster, infielder Ivan de Jesus Jr. and the time honored “two players to be named later.”

The trade is note-worthy for the $250M the Red Sox were able to dump in salary. Finally the front office was honest and by this action admitted that the Sox would not make the playoffs for the third year in a row. Now the task is to use the money judiciously to build a winner. The need is particularly acute in pitching as the Red Sox pitchers had a combined ERA in 2012 of 4.70 which ranked 27th in MLB!

Needless to say Bobby Valentine was fired some 14 hours after Game 162 a loss counting as their 8th in a row and 12th of their final 13 - Yikes. Fittingly the season ended with a 14-2 loss to the New York Yankees. Hopefully it also marked the end of Daisuke Matsuzaka's career with the Sox. He gave up 5 runs in 2.1 innings and finished with an 8.28 ERA in 11 games after coming back from Tommy John surgery.

Now the search for a new manager begins. I hope one is in place before the team starts signing players. That way the manager will have a say in which players come to Boston and maybe a chance to have some success in 2013. I’ll be waiting for Truck Day, Spring Training and Opening Day 2013. My prediction is that the Boston Red Sox will find their way back to be the winning team we are all hoping to see.

The Marriage of Jason and Ruth

     

    Last Sunday, August 26, 2012, was one very special day. As I had the distinction and indeed the joy of being able to do something which is a once in a lifetime privilege. I officiated at the marriage of my nephew Jason to his fiancé Ruth. Jason and Ruth had asked if I would be willing to solemnize their vows at the marriage ceremony. It touched my heart and I was thrilled to accept.

    That moment set in motion the process required to obtain from the Commonwealth of Massachusetts a One Day Marriage Designation. I filled out the application and my niece, Kristin, was kind enough to write a letter to recommend me. Props to the Governor’s Office for their prompt response in sending the official document granting me the right to perform the ceremony.

    Last Sunday the weather was sunny not a cloud in the sky - spectacular. This was so appreciated as the marriage rites were to take place outdoors at the Public Garden in Boston. There amid the majestic Weeping Willow Trees, the Peaceful Pond, the historic Swan Boats, and the Graceful Gardens Jason and Ruth were wed. Jason’s daughter, Gwendolyn, participated as did Ruth’s son, Aiden. Their participation was a moving tribute to this loving, blended family. Jason and Ruth were fortunate to have their parents there as well. Jim, Regina, Dave and Kathy happily supported and acknowledged the love between the couple, their son and daughter.

    The loving words, the beautiful vows, the exchanging of rings, all came together to make these memorable moments so real and emotional. I have been to countless weddings as we all have but none have touched my heart more. It was an absolute honor to help facilitate the Marriage of Jason and Ruth. May you both enjoy the happiness you so richly deserve as you begin your journey together.

A Concert for the Ages: Stevie Nicks In Your Dreams Tour - Boston, MA July 10, 2012

Alright I know what you may be thinking. This is just another “fanatic” Stevie Nicks fan. Well you are not all that wrong. However, I stand by the singular title and this is why.

In addition to her amazing music, her unique voice, her mystique, her magical presence and her love for her audience we got to meet one of the soldiers who survived serious brain trauma. Stevie had visited him at some of her many trips to Walter Reed Army Hospital.

PFC Vincent Mannion and his family were introduced after Stevie sang Soldier’s Angel. This song is on her latest album In Your Dreams. But she had long given a copy of the comforting words to the countless soldiers she visited and if just for a moment took away some of their pain. She always knew she would record it as it was their song.

It was beyond emotional as photos of Stevie visiting with Vincent and his family were shown as she sang the song. When Vincent and his family walked onstage they were greeted with wild and warm applause. Stevie spoke about how the support of his strong Irish family contributed so much to his recovery as they were not going to leave that hospital without him.

Vincent, his mom, dad, and sister were all introduced by Stevie and each spoke to the audience. There was hardly a dry eye in the house as the emotion and joy of the moment along with the fear that it might never have happened just overwhelmed you. Vincent said to Stevie, "You’re my best friend.” and that spoke volumes about his love for and gratitude to Stevie.

The concert itself was memorable as Stevie bravely sang six songs from her new album after announcing that this was not a “greatest hits tour”. The new songs were Secret Love, Moonlight (A Vampire’s Dream), Soldier’s Angel,as mentioned, For What It’s Worth and Annabel Lee, my two favorites and Ghosts Are Gone. Stevie did a mesmerizing version of my classic favorite Gold Dust Woman. In addition Enchanted, Dreams, Stand Back, Rhiannon, Leather and Lace performed with her vocal coach, Steve Real, and Landslide all were sung with the love and conviction that Stevie still has for these timeless songs.

Stevie did Edge of Seventeen for her finale and at the conclusion walked across the front of the stage receiving gifts and flowers and shaking hands with her adoring fans. I can tell you I’ve had the joy of meeting Stevie at the stage many times and it is a thrill. This is a very special gift that Stevie gives to her fans.

For the encore Stevie did Love Is and said that we could interpret it any way we want. She was chatty throughout the concert giving some background about many of the songs especially the new ones.

At the conclusion once again Vincent and his family came onstage to enthusiastic applause and they all took the traditional bow with Stevie and her band. Stevie again thanked us for our support and especially for the way we welcomed Vincent. She said she would never forget this night and just how special it was to have Vincent there and for the reception he received.

Stevie lingered at the stage waving to us and Vincent leaning over even shook hands with a few fans. Stevie ever caring and motherly said, “Be Careful” to him. It was an honor to be in the audience for this most unforgettable evening.

Please Note Regarding the Photo: In the foreground you see Stevie Nicks about to embrace PFC Vincent Mannion. On the screen behind you see Vincent with his mother and father.

Dell, Trend Micro and Verizon

September 17, 2010

This is a saga but I am going to try for the short version. At the 2 ½ year mark my Dell laptop XPS 1530 died suddenly. I mean you got no error message and it would not boot up. Well, after a two hour phone conversation with Anne, a helpful technician at Dell, it was determined that my motherboard and hard drive would be replaced. Luckily I had purchased the 3 year hardware warranty with in home service.

In a timely fashion Luis, Dell technician extraordinaire, arrived at my house with the replacement parts and completed the installation. I can not complement his expertise and professionalism enough. He even left the hard drive with me so that I could get a copy of it made within 10 days before mailing it (the old hard drive) back to Dell. After Luis’s work was completed it took about one hour for the files to expand and the computer to be ready for use. Except for one little, tiny detail I could not connect to the internet. Now I ask you of what use is a computer which does not connect to the internet.

Next thing I did was call Verizon, my DSL provider, and explain my problem. After resetting the modem and router and with my Dell desktop having no internet connection issue it was determined by the Verizon tech that a software problem existed with Cisco, the maker of the router and that for a fee Verizon would resolve it – thanks but no thanks. My next step was to call Dell and see if they could facilitate my ability to connect to the internet, This is where the tale gets rather ugly.

The first tech I spoke to, Reese, informed me that it was a software issue and that again for a fee that could resolve it. I asked to speak to a supervisor as it was my belief that since they had repaired my computer at the very least, they should turn it over to me in the same working condition I had previously enjoyed – namely a viable internet connection. Reese dragged his feet and remained on the line hoping I would agree to the fee for resolving my problem or simply go away. I asked again to speak to a supervisor and Reese responds with he’s making his way down here.

Then Peter, floor supervisor from Hell, gets on the line. He was a broken record if there ever was one. At least six times he stated his mantra – this is a software issue and your warranty only covers hardware problems. He was condescending in the manner in which he kept repeating himself as though I didn’t 'understand' what he was saying the first time. It gets better since I have a Dell desktop and printer he offered me a one year contract for $239 to resolve this and any future software issues on all three Dell products. I repeated my concern that my computer should be working, including an internet capability, after their tech had worked on it. After some back and forth now Peter tells me that he has the authority as a manager to give me a deal of $99 for the same service contract which was $239 mere minutes ago. Talk about a snake-oil salesman. This went a long way toward my losing much respect for the Dell brand. When I declined his 'deal' he informed me that if I didn’t take it and called back later it would not be available. Now we are getting into the area of a threat. I would not be intimidated and ended the call hearing the usual words “thank you for choosing Dell”. Thank you for nothing!

I decided again to troubleshoot the problem myself. It was very important for me to be able to resolve this internet connection issue as I wanted to reinstall my security program from Trend Micro at their website. After about another hour and much frustration I unchecked a box, located in the connections area of my computer. It was for Trend Micro driver and that program was not even on the new hard drive. Well low and behold my connection went from limited to full internet connection – hurrah!!! A simple unchecked box and not $239 solved my problem.

I called Trend Micro for assistance in downloading the security program. The first tech said that after I download the program it would run. Well it didn’t and the message was that it was 'on the computer'already – not this new hard drive. After the second tech had me delete certain files it still would not run the security program. James said he would send me a tool in an e mail to uninstall any previous Trend Micro files and then the new program should run. Well, thank you James as that was the solution. So, now I have internet access and a security program on my computer.

So, the better part of three days was spend getting my computer 'humming again'. I won’t get into the hours spent reinstalling Microsoft Office, Adobe Photoshop Premiere and Elements, Adobe Reader etc. etc. There you have it. Working computers are a thing of beauty. The other kind not so much…

Meeting Writer, Christopher Rice

Who would ever think that a book-signing could be a highlight of the summer season!?! In my case, so far, it has been. On Friday August 20th it was my good fortune to get to Provincetown, MA for Christopher Rice’s signing of his latest book The Moonlit Earth.

It proved to be a unique experience, an honor even. To meet such an intelligent, kind, friendly and engaging person as Christopher was wonderful. I was about the 7th one in line when the author arrived 10 minutes early just before 6:00 PM. He was dressed casually for summer vacation but did he ever look good – what a handsome man!

When he began to sign his book, it was clear that he was more than willing to pose for photos and to converse with his readers. I recently read Light Before Day, loved it, and was anxious to get his latest out since April. It was a pleasure to meet Christopher and to tell him how much I like his writing style and his character development. In addition I was able to compliment his mother, Anne Rice, and her courage in recently taking leave of Christianity. He told me that soon he and his mother would have a joint interview to discuss this intense and controversial matter. I will definitely look forward to it.

So often when you make plans to meet someone you admire ( I have been to many of my favorite authors book signings) the result is less that satisfactory. On this occasion Christopher Rice surpassed any expectation I might have had. Thank you, Christopher, for being you and for sharing some meaningful moments with your readers.

~~~Thank you to the gentleman who was in line behind me and graciously agreed to take the photo of Christopher and me.

Stevie in the Studio

My favorite singer, Stevie Nicks, has been in the studio since February with Dave Stewart of the Eurythmics. She is doing a few concerts this month and I can't wait to see her in Atlantic City on August 27th. Needless to say I am anxiously awaiting the release of Stevie's first new album in 10 years.

Back Again and Better Than Ever

Yesterday I had a most pleasant surprise. After I finished my volunteer tutoring in Roslindale I decided to drive to Norwood and to see when my car would need its first service. The onboard computer is telling me another 4000 miles for my first oil change. But since my xDrive 328i was one year old on June 1st I wanted to check.

So, I spoke to my salesperson, David, who is now in the finance department. I asked him to recommend a service consultant. I knew that Kim, so kind and so efficient, had left the job a year ago. At the time it felt like losing friend. I'm sure anyone who has experienced any stress related to car maintenance can identify.

Well, was I ever thrilled when David said those magic words, "Kim's back!" She had taken a few months off to spend more time with family. Talk about a dream come true or the answer to a prayer!

It may sound and seem silly but the confidence I have in Kim and the way she does her job by going that extra mile ie well founded. Just today she made it possible for my car to have that first service, including oil change, replacing windshield wiper blades, checking car pressure, getting an inspection sticker etc. The BMW $0 new car maintenance for four years is a priceless relief.

When the Ordinary Is Special

How you ask! Well it began with getting a good night’s sleep last night – so not the usual occurrence. I am in Reston, VA spending time with my dear cousin. It is our annual get together built around the Red Sox playing the Orioles at Camden Yard. The coming weekend is sure to be fun. So, anyhow this morning I was relaxing as I read the Times, did the puzzle (well part of it), sipped some delicious coffee and watched some morning TV. The View would have Whoopi coming out at 11:00 AM in a green Celtics jersey all set to root for Boston against Los Angeles tonight! What a lovely surprise!

At around noon I headed for the pool on the top floor. It was a perfect time to read my almost finished book The Girl Who Kicked the Hornets’ Nest. Later when I went for a swim it was refreshing and there was the added bonus of two friends who were both entertaining and educational. Both women were of Afghan descent but much Americanized. One has a mother who works at the Pentagon. Both of them could get six figure jobs working for the US government as interpreters but are unwilling to subject themselves to the danger of returning to their native land. To make the conversation even more interesting the life guard was from Russia and spoke about how controlling her boy friend back home is with his 20 calls a day. We all advised her to run the other way and one of the other girls offered to set her up with one of her cousins – too funny!

After returning to the apartment I got myself ready for a walk to Plaza America only about 20 minutes away. I meandered around Whole Foods and then had a soup/tuna roll lunch. By the time I headed home it was raining, not a downpour but enough to get pretty wet. Back home I came to find out that the Sox were edged by the A’s 9-8. What was that about ‘run prevention and very little offense in 2010!?!

Time to catch up with my favorite TV series, Nurse Jackie. You see I don’t have Showtime and must depend on visits to family to get caught up on season two using On Demand. Cousin Curl is putting in twelve hour days unfortunately but she’ll be home for the opening game of the NBA Finals Boston Celtics vs Los Angeles Lakers. A Celtics victory would be the highlight of a near perfect day.

After Almost ¼ of the 2010 Boston Red Sox Season

Well it’s not as though I know anything more or less about the Olde Town Team than I did in Spring Training. The word was out and was shouted loud and often that this edition of the Boston Red Sox would focus on ‘run prevention’ with great pitching and outstanding defense. Just ask Theo Epstein who got the word out early. To this end the front office signed the best free agent pitcher available, Los Angeles Angel John Lackey as well as gold-glovers Mke Cameron and Adrian Beltre.

So, with the signing of Lackey there emerged what many thought was the best starting pitching in all of baseball, Josh Beckett, Jon Lester, John Lackey, Clay Bucholtz and Tim Wakefield with the rehabbing Daisuke Matsuzaka waiting in the wings. Lackey was numero uno starter for the Angels and as a result the Sox were said to have three #1 starters, Beckett, Lester, Lackey – an embarrassment of riches. But something happened as the first 38 games of the MLB season unfolded.

Josh Beckett after a very good opening day win against the New York Yankees was uncharacteristically wild in his next starts with a 7:00+ ERA and posted no further victories. Jon Lester got off to his usual slow start but has improved and is now 3-2with a respectable 3:91 ERA and 54 K’s. John Lackey got off to a fast start but was shaky in his last outing as he comes in at 4-2 with a 4:86 ERA. He has walked more batters than usual. Clay Bucholtz remains a conundrum – dominating one time, knocked around the next. Presently he is 4-3 with an ERA of 3:46 but with 22 walks and only 28 strike outs. Innings eater knuckleballer, Tim Wakefield, off to a poor start with an 0-2 record and an ERA of 5:63 was relegated to the bullpen when Dice-K was ready to start for the big club. After three starts Matsuzaka is 2-1 with a decidedly not pretty 6:35 ERA.

The bullpen thought to be a major strength of this club has been erratic and undependable. The closer, Jonathan Papelbon, has not blown a save but is only 1-2 with an ERA of 1:47 after 16 IP. Daniel Bard has been up and down. Hideki Okajima was given a week off when he experienced a slow start and some health issues. Manny Delcarmen may be coming around but Ramon Ramirez has not done well and newcomer, Scott Schoeneweiss is a bit of a disaster. So, you see that the pitching is a ‘work in progress.


Now to the vaunted defense – gold-glovers Dustin Pedroia and Kevin Youkilis have been steady on the right side of the infield. The Sox signed Adrian Beltre and Marco Scutero in the off season. Scutero had some early trouble going to his left and Beltre has been anything but the gold-glover the Red sox thought they were getting. He has 7 errors and often looks uninterested. It’s alarming how he fails to cut off balls headed for shortstop. As for the outfield, Mike Cameron has been injured and out of the line-up for over a month. When he was in there he wasn’t getting good reads on balls hit toward him in centerfield at Fenway. Jacoby Ellsbury was playing in his sixth game when a collision with Beltre resulted in four fractured ribs. Cameron is rehabbing with AAA starts and Ellsbury had his first rehab start today in Pawtucket. J.D. Drew has been his usual dependable self in right field.


So there you have it between the lack of quality starts, and the lack of a dependable bullpen the Red Sox sport a mediocre record of 19 wins and 19 losses. As of May 3rd their fielding percentage was the second worst in the American League although it has been better in recent days. The feeling of confusion about what we can expect, injuries aside, from this team may be answered shortly as they face a tough schedule of games with the Yankees, Twins, Phillies and Rays in the next ten days. Personally I’m finding it hard to accept that the 2010 Boston Red Sox may be no better than a .500 team. Time will tell…

Raspberries To:

Underwire bras which set off airport security requiring a full body search to indeed verify that one is not wearing a weapon of mass destruction~

Fridays when the Bruins, Celtics and Red Sox all lose~

Photo discs made on a Mac which can't be played on a PC~

Mean people~

People who don't listen~

MLB pitchers unraveling~

NBA teams not playing defense~

Those who neglect to show appreciation - even with a simple thank you~

Hall of Fame football players accused of rape. Does the name Lawrence Taylor, former New York Giant, ring a bell?

The Vatican which is in the process of too little too late with regard to 'predatory priests' - can this old boys club ever come into the 21st century with regard to equal treatment of women?

Hilarious

~In Brookline~

April 20, 2010

I must say that I have always had a soft spot for the Town of Brookline from the fine school system to the priceless mansions to the vast array of restaurants and most importantly to the best doctors anywhere. That said, last Friday I got a parking ticket while I was at The Coolidge Corner Theatre. A fantastic movie The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo was playing there. Subtitles and all it was as good as the amazing book. Anyhow, I had dutifully put my coins in the meter and knew that I had three hours. Imagine my surprise after the film ended when I spotted the yellow ticket torn and wet on my windshield.

With a little detective work my mistake became clear. I had put my money in the meter facing front and not the one to the left, the correct one. I wonder if others have erred in this way. Anyhow I went directly to the police station to explain my blight only to discover the next hearing to dispute a ticket would be held on Tuesday morning April 20th. Of course I made my way to Brookline today and after about a 30 minute wait a very nice sergeant heard my story. The good news is that he reduced my ticket from $25.00 to a $5.00 fine which I paid immediately. I felt satisfied with the result.

To celebrate I decided to go right around the corner to one of my favorite places, Matt Murphy’s where they have the best shepherd’s pie this side of Ireland. It’s made the proper way with lamb, real mashed potatoes, carrots and turnip. I placed my order to go and waited the 10 minutes in the Pub. A very caring waitress brought over a cup of tea with milk and raw sugar. I was so taken aback at her thoughtfulness. Irish hospitality is alive and well at Matt Murphy’s. Oh and by the way the shepherd’s pie was every bit as good as I remembered it. Just another reason to love Brookline!

Worthy of Praise

Kudos To:

The imaginative young priest at St. Anthony’s Shrine in Boston who quoted Bono’s lyrics from a U2 song during a Holy Week sermon~

Jessie the sweet, gentle, funny lady who celebrated her 97th birthday this month~
All those who love baseball and follow their team obsessively – that means you Red Sox Nation~

Sister Nancy and her staff for their tireless efforts at Casserly House~
The Fontbonne Academy class of 1960 as they celebrate the 50th anniversary of their high school graduation~

Fontbonne’s first principal an amazing woman of wisdom and grace, Sister Flavia, who died last Christmas Eve.

Those who are careful not to litter as well as those whose job it is to clean the inevitable litter~

A certain puppy who has brought so much joy to a wonderful family~
A loving niece and her selfless generosity~

The novelist, Pat Conroy, whose book South of Broad is beautifully written poetic prose~

The Ledge Restaurant in Lower Mills Dorchester – terrific food, tasty drinks, attentive service and a lively atmosphere~

Heathrow Airport for shutting down operations due to the danger posed by volcanic ash from Iceland~

The Library of Congress for acquiring the entire Twitter archive with 50M tweets a day that’s a lot of 140 or less characters~

John Lackey for the ease with which he has assimilated himself as a member of the Boston Red Sox~

The first woman, Katherine Bigelow, to get an oscar for best director for the phenomenal movie The Hurt Locker~

Carrie Fisher whose blog can always make me laugh~

To those who care enough to research and preserve the memory and accomplishments of their ancestors~

All who make kindness a priority in their daily interactions with others~

A New Day In Massachusetts - Remembering Senator Edward M. Kennedy

It has been some time since I sat down to blog. File under past due! I got very side tracked chronicling every Red Sox game at www.dak126-sox09.blogspot.com during the 2009 season. I had wanted to honor Senator Edward Moore Kennedy with some heart-felt words when he died August 25, 2009. But I didn’t know where to start and so I didn’t. After the special election last Tuesday I began to think it’s time. The election saw the seat occupied by Ted Kennedy for nearly 47 years go to a little known but tireless campaigner Massachusetts Republican State Senator, Scott Brown.

Needless to say it was a staggering blow to those who believed in Kennedy’s life-long ambition that good and decent health care be made available to all Americans including low income people as well as those with pre-existing conditions. The Democratic candidate, State Attorney General Martha Coakley, seemed to take her election as a given, failed to connect with the people and generally speaking wasn’t a very good ‘candidate’. These factors plus an angry electorate tired of the tight job market, the bank bailouts, the big bonuses, the perceived out of control spending and the rancor of Washington politicians all contributed to the 5% triumph of our new Massachusetts Senator Scott Brown, the first Republican elected to that office since Edward Brooke in 1972.

On an emotional level it’s a strange irony that the man who will succeed Senator Kennedy will now have the 41st vote which effectively blocks the health care legislation currently before Congress. My hope is that both sides of the aisle will put aside partisanship and really work together to accomplish what the American people are looking for among other things more jobs and a better economic climate.

To honor Edward M. Kennedy and his service to our country I begin with his very own words:

“I grew up in a large Irish Catholic family as the youngest of nine children. By their words, their actions, and their love our parents instilled in all of us the importance of the ties that bind us together – our faith, our family and our love of this great country.”

Ted Kennedy spent his whole career in public service working for the underdog, for those less fortunate, for those in need often giving voice to the powerless. To recount but three of the senator’s accomplishments I start with the fact that today there are 1200 community health centers in all 50 states giving low income Americans access to quality primary care due in large part to Senator Kennedy’s vision and inspired work.*

Next, in the words of Reg Weaver, the immediate past President of the National Education Association:

“Every major education law passed since the 1960’s has borne Kennedy’s imprint, from Head Start to the Elementary and Secondary Education Act. He has proven himself, time and again, to be a fighter for children and educators.”

Finally, Senator Kennedy has always been a leading Congressional advocate of a fair minimum wage. Fittingly, he saw the minimum wage increase 16 times during his years of service in the United States Senate.

Countless words have been spoken about the senator and how he was the master of compromise enabling him to get the people’s business done. Even more words of praise were spoken during the period of mourning after Edward Moore Kennedy died last August 25th. The public wake at the John F. Kennedy Library and Museum saw folks standing in a line half a mile long for many hours to pay their respects. In a classy gesture, Vicki, Ted’s wife and other members of the family spoke to those waiting in line and thanked them for their presence and support.

Ted Kennedy was an outstanding and devoted senator. His friends and colleagues, both Republican and Democratic, gave memorable tributes at his funeral. But the most emotional and moving words came from his son, Edward Kennedy Jr. Losing his leg to cancer and battling the disease as a child Teddy spoke about how his father’s love and determination to help him made all the difference in his young life. Family man, loving husband to Vicki, father to the children of his assassinated brothers, John and Robert, tireless legislator, and advocate for those in need are just a few ways to describe this amazing man.

Was he a perfect man? No, far from it but he knew enough to change his harmful behaviors and to address his destructive ways. He was a man of faith who was humble and sorrowful enough to write to Pope Benedict XVI shortly before he died of a malignant brain tumor to ask for prayers and to seek forgiveness for any wrong-doings.

It goes without saying that I have long admired the Kennedy family, their service to America often at a great price, their willingness to stand up for and with common folks, their dedication to serving in the military, their closeness as a family and most of all the help given to the many with no fanfare or sought for recognition.

An accomplished sailor Ted found great solace and renewal in his closeness to the sea and especially those beautiful waters of the Atlantic Ocean at his beloved Hyannisport, MA home. Rest in peace, Teddy, the ninth and youngest child of Joseph Patrick and Rose Fitzgerald Kennedy you always seemed to renew my optimism in what was possible.

I will close with a thank you to Senator Edward M. Kennedy for his kind and generous heart and for all that he did to make the lives of ordinary Americans better. You are missed beyond imagining…

*Source: http://kennedy.senate.gov/imo/media/doc/Kennedy%20Accomplishments.pdf

Late Afternoon Seaside Images

Every year Labor Day brings with it the ‘unofficial’ end of summer. For me it’s a chance to reflect on a recent day at the beach. No question the best time of day by the ocean is very late afternoon. Once last week I arrived later than usual at 4:40 PM and the images I saw as well as the words I heard gave me pause and were much appreciated. Sometimes depending on where your beach chair happens to land you may be subject to overtired, unhappy children, grumbling adults, 'language challenged' teens, and any manner of obnoxious annoying sights and sounds. All this when you just want to have a refreshing swim, peacefully read your book or just enjoy the rejuvenating powers of the sun, sand, air and water.

No negativity on this particular day only lovingly beautiful images. First a family of three settling in to my left mother, father and son James about 12 years of age. It was a pleasure to observe this young boy so obviously kind and respectful to his parents even though he wanted them to go in the water and they preferred just to sit. At one point the Dad took some photos of his son with the ocean in the background. Even though the boy urged him to hurry when the ‘photo session’ was over the son gave his father a big hug.

The second image was directly in front of me as patient, loving grandparents were completely attentive to their 2-3 year old grandson, Dylan. They played with him digging holes in the sand, going into the water, offering cookies, and completely enjoying precious time at the beach with this beautiful little child.

About 5:15 PM I observed image number three as a father arrived with his three children ages ranging from a few months to six to maybe eight years of age. Perhaps the Mom was at work or maybe taking a break at home. In any event this family headed right for the water splashing happily, riding the boogie board, playing and having fun. Again you could feel joy and the love.

Final image is of a young mother with a new-born making her way to the water’s edge with another young woman perhaps her sister or friend. They spoke in a foreign tongue and made sure that the infant enjoyed the beauty of the seashore.

As the sun gets lower in the sky earlier and earlier I am reminded that these wonderful beach days will soon give way to the Fall and early darkness. I plan to enjoy as many of them as the summer has left with this day being a definite highlight. I’m thankful for the beauty of these seaside images as they will surely remain with me as will the sun glistening on the water, the warm ocean breezes, the refreshing swim in the ocean and the graceful sailboats gliding through the water. All this along with a compelling book to read will be much missed as the days get shorter, the weather cooler and summer comes to an end.

Honoring Eunice Kennedy Shriver

It has been said that Eunice Kennedy Shriver was a ‘force of nature’. That she was and more. Born into a famous, competitive and wealthy family she was a woman ahead of her times. Long before anyone heard of women’s liberation she was there competing with her brothers, Joe, Jack, Robert and Ted. Whether it was in school, in sports or in politics she was supremely intelligent, driven and feisty. She held her own in a male environment and taught her daughter, granddaughters and nieces that they could do anything that their brothers and boy cousins could do.

This positive self-esteem building was not limited to her family. In large part due to the love she had for her mentally challenged sister, Rosemary, she tackled the lack of acceptance and negative perception the world seem to have for such individuals. She founded the Special Olympics which started in her backyard as Camp Shriver back in the early 60’s. She encouraged these special children and made them feel loved and accepted for themselves. She convinced them they could do so much. As they practiced and competed their confidence grew, they made new friends and the lives of their family members were greatly enriched. Today these special athletes compete in some 175 countries. Through Mrs. Shriver’s tireless efforts 3,000,000 children and adults are able to participate in Olympic games and develop their skills. None of this would have been possible without the vision and hard work of Eunice Kennedy Shriver.

In 1984 President Reagan rewarded Eunice’s achievements with the Presidential Medal of Freedom – America’s highest award given to a civilian for public service. Those who knew her say she was a woman of constant motion always doing for others. Some of her most inspiring words were spoken at the 1987 Special Olympics held at the University of Notre Dame. It was there that she spoke to the athletes and said in her well known Kennedy accent:

“The right to play on any playing field? You have earned it. The right to study in any school? You have earned it. The right to hold a job? You have earned it. The right to be anyone’s neighbor? You have earned it.”

Her marriage of 56 years to Sargent Shriver, former Ambassador to France and founder of the Peace Corps, was an enduring love affair. They were completely devoted to one another and to their five children. As daughter, Maria, said at her mother’s eulogy she and her four brothers each felt like an only child. Their mother fiercely supported all their endeavors and spoke with each of them every day. Maria married to Arnold Schwarzenegger is the First Lady of California, an award-winning journalist and best-selling author. Each of her brothers runs a non-profit foundation. Bobby a member of the Santa Monica City Council co-founded a number of organizations including Product (Red) with U2’s Bono to help fight aids in Africa. Timothy has run the Special Olympics for the last 14 years and has overseen its growth to over 3 million athletes in 175 countries. Mark is VP and Marketing Director of Save the Children USA and is widely published in the NY Times, Washington Post and Newsweek among others. Anthony is the founder and chairman of Best Buddies International which fosters friendships for persons with intellectual and developmental disabilities. It operates in all 50 states as well as 44 countries. In addition to their five children there are nineteen grandchildren quite a legacy for this amazing couple.

Eunice was a devout Catholic and a woman of tremendous faith with a particular devotion to Mary, the mother of Jesus. In May, 2008 her son, Timothy, referenced this with the following words in an article he wrote for washingtonpost.com:

“But I can hardly begin to capture how much meaning and purpose my mother’s devotion to Mary has given me. The rosary was my first exposure to the power of repetitive prayer and led me to study the meditative practices of all religions where mantra and repetition form a pathway to silence and peace. Those beads in my fingers still create an almost biological reaction: “calm down” they seem to call out no matter the moment. Move to your center. Be still.”

Her daughter, Maria, gave a magnificent eulogy to honor her mother after the funeral Mass on August 14th. Here is an excerpt from it:

“Mummy was indeed a trailblazer. She showed up in her life as herself, and that takes courage. She took adversity and turned it into advantage. Inspired by the rejection she saw many women face, especially her sister Rosemary and her mother, and other mothers of special children, she turned that into her life’s focus and her life’s passion and mission. Her own brand of what I’d call maternal feminism.”

“Mummy was indeed a towering figure. I'm sure everybody in this church has a story about her, a story that would make you laugh, make you cry, a story that would make you roll your eyes at her audacity and her brilliance. She was the real deal, a woman who did everything women aspired to. She had a great husband, she had a great family, a deep, deep faith in God, and she combined that with being a fearless warrior for the voiceless.”

I had the privilege of attending the public wake held for Mrs. Shriver last week at Our Lady’s Church in Centerville, MA. There were many Special Olympians there, lots of ordinary folks and of course family members including all her children. I signed the guest book and was then greeted by one of Eunice’s 19 grandchildren. This very sweet little girl thanked me for coming. I was pleased to have the opportunity to speak to one of Mrs. Shriver’s sons and to tell him what a remarkable woman his mother was. He said simply, ”Thank you, yes she was.” I then said a prayer at Eunice Kennedy Shriver’s casket and took the time to view the many large photographs lining the aisles of the church. There was magnificent music playing helping to create a sense of reverence and awe.

The life’s work of Eunice Kennedy Shriver will continue to reverberate in the years to come as her children, her grandchildren and everyone she inspired with her words and deeds continue her life’s mission to make the world better for those with intellectual disabilities. For as Eunice herself said:

"As we hope for the best in them, hope is reborn in us."

Meeting Up With Mick Fleetwood

It has been a week now since I had the good fortune to attend another memorable concert by my favorite band, Fleetwood Mac. This article will be about the exciting events leading up to that amazing show.

It all began when I got a telephone call from my friend, Torri, saying she had bid for charity on a ticket package for a Fleetwood Mac concert. Much to her surprise she won with her bid and in addition to seats 3rd row center a Meet and Greet with Mick Fleetwood was included. Mick is the long time and original drummer with Fleetwood Mac going back to when it was a blues band in the UK in the late 60’s. As a long time fan and ‘groupie’ who has seen Fleetwood Mac and Stevie Nicks in concert well over a hundred times I was thrilled when Torri asked me to be her guest. I really didn’t know what to expect and was delighted with the experience.

We arrived in Manchester, NH at the Verizon Wireless Center on June 16, 2009 with instructions to be there an hour before the gates opened to the public. There we were greeted by Cory (not Lindsey’s niece, also on the tour) who gave us our tickets, a promo photo of Mick and a really neat laminated All Access Pass. We proceeded to the stage and it was fun to be there looking out at the empty arena. Cory told us how they had to remove Stevie’s microphone from the Meet and Greet because fans were touching the ribbons and beads on her mic and throwing the electronics off. Cory told us Mick loves to talk and to ask him anything as she and the others working on the tour love juicy tidbits.

Mick entered from the side of the stage and is he ever, at 6’ 5” tall, larger than life. He has a pleasant, calm demeanor unlike his manic antics on stage. He was dressed like a British nobleman with a magnificent scarf, a beautiful suit, and a fashionable cap. He had on his traditional slippers only purple. I asked him where the trademark red ones were and he said he’d have them for the show.

Each group had a photo taken with Mick in front of his drum kit. We also had the opportunity to get an autograph. Mick graciously signed both the promo photo and the All Access Pass. One woman expressed disappointment that her husband couldn’t make it as he is a drummer and a big fan of Mick’s. Well didn’t Mick talk to him on the cell phone after his wife called him - so kind of Mick. When Torri and I had our photo op Mick asked us if we were Manchesterites. Torri is from VA and I’m from Boston. Mick commented that Boston was close-by. Another couple who vacation every year in Maui asked Mick , who has a home there, for restaurant recommendations and he had several for them. When the next couple had their time with Mick the woman said, “Are you going to sign it(his photo)thanks for last night" Mick said, “Ooh, that sounds naughty. Do you want to get me in trouble?” It was all in good fun with Mick showing a quick wit.

During the question and answer part I asked Mick about the jewelry he was wearing and each piece had an interesting story. The moon shaped pendant with three stones was last year’s Christmas present from Stevie and another piece was made by a couple in Canterbury. Mick described them as characters and real alchemists. He stepped toward me to act out how if the jeweler didn’t like what you had chosen she’d look down and say, “No, I don’t think so.” I also asked how Christine McVie was doing. He said she is very happy living in her 11th century home in Kent which he described as stunning. Her brother lives close by. Mick saw Christine about eight months ago when he took his blues band to play in England. Chris came to the show and Mick said he didn’t ask her to play even though she is a blues pianist as he knew she was happily retired.

At one point Mick mused about how maybe the band stayed a little too long on the road this time as they tacked on two make-up shows in Canada. In this regard he was very complimentary to Stevie calling her a real ‘team player’ and saying, “Let’s face it she really doesn’t have to do this.” Mick was of course referring to the fact that Stevie has a hugely successful solo career but we all know she does love ‘her band’! The band will be doing more concerts in Europe and Australia starting in October. Mick even said that it looks like Fleetwood Mac will tour again next summer – fabulous.

Mick told a very interesting story about the band’s first fan when Fleetwood Mac was starting out as a blues band in England and a woman named Madge came to all their shows. Well I always wondered about the songs Fighting for Madge and Searching for Madge on the Then Play On album. Who was Madge? Well now I know – very cool! How wonderful that the band wrote songs for their biggest fan who sometimes hitchhiked 200 miles to get to a show.

After this fan story I told Mick how I had gone to London and Birmingham to see the band during the Say You Will Tour in 2003. He seemed a bit amazed at that and asked if I had business and happened to be in England. I said no that some of us just love to follow the band. As for me it was something I always hoped to do to hear the band play in their native UK. Thanks to my friend, Martin from Bristol, for helping to make it happen.

Torri said how this was her 15th show of the Unleashed Tour. Mick opined you must get bored with the same introductions and stories every night. Of course we don’t! Mick said there are nuances and that they don’t play ‘by the numbers’. He mentioned how a band like REM is incredible with how they change the set for each song and vary the songs concert to concert. Mick said that Fleetwood Mac could never do that as Lindsey is a perfectionist and he does most of the production work with input from the other members. Fleetwood Mac hopes to do another album but with an outside producer. They need an overseer as Lindsey has a family now and it would just take too long when you’re as obsessive as Lindsey is.

At the conclusion of the Meet and Greet Mick unexpectedly came right over to me and with a kiss and a hug thanked me for being such a supportive fan traveling to England and all. I certainly didn’t expect that kind of recognition and I thanked him again for the music. He was gracious to Torri as well and we both felt that it was a real treat and an absolute pleasure to have spent some time with Mick who could not have been more sincere.

Mick was very entertaining and generous with his time. He was clearly happy to share and to spend these moments with us. There was no sense of ‘going through the motions’ as you know he has done these Meet and Greets countless times. Mick is real artist, a magnificent drummer and the one largely responsible for being able to keep his band with the convoluted emotional history not only together but still loving each other, able to work through all the hurts and to survive all the romantic entanglements. Thank you, Mick for your unique insights and your kindness to the fans.

Jessie - an Inspiration

Recently I’ve come to know an amazing woman in her 90’s. She is loving, lovable, feisty, wise and brave. Her name is Jessie. She has a sharp mind and a keen sense of humor. Today she challenged herself. You see Jess has macular degeneration. Her vision is limited. She once said that it makes her mad and then corrected herself not mad just frustrated.

Today when I saw her walking to the noon Mass I was concerned. She always gets a ride. When she had to stop driving, with a clean record, her motivation was so that no one would get hurt. Now I was concerned for Jessie's safety especially crossing the street. When I parked my car and went to meet her, she took my arm as we entered the Church together. She told me how she started out, then went back and then was determined to walk to Mass. Her usual ride was unavailable today and she had overcome her fear in order to get to church.

I managed to convince her to let me drive her home. Reluctant at first she came to realize that maybe walking one way was good enough for today. Jessie is someone who inspires and amazes. As one who is not much of a risk taker, I hope to learn from her courage and spunk.

Susan Boyle - A Dream Came Dream

Since last Saturday when Susan Boyle performed on Britain’s Got Talent her audition has been viewed over 30 million times on you tube and other websites. This has made Susan Boyle an internet sensation. But who is she? Well to start with she’s a single, unemployed, 47 year old woman who lives with her cat, Pebbles, in a small village in Scotland. The youngest of nine children she had learning difficulties after being deprived of oxygen at birth. Bullied as a child she had many challenges to overcome.

How did she become such a phenomenon? Backstage before her performance she declared, “I’m going to make that audience rock.” When Susan first came onto the stage the three judges as well as the audience looked skeptical and were even snickering at her. After all Susan was very plain looking even frumpy. When Simon Cowell asked who she wanted to be as successful as she cheekily answered Elaine Paige, only the First Lady of British Musical Theatre! The camera shows Simon, whose record label has had over 70 #1 hits in the UK and the USA, disrespectfully rolling his eyes and the other two judges looking equally disapproving.

Then Susan Boyle started to sing “I Dreamed a Dream” from Les Miserables. From the opening note everyone was completely enthralled. It took just eight words into the song for the screaming to start and for the audience to rise to their feet clapping loudly and enthusiastically. That magical voice so natural and haunting was a thing of beauty. Not only was the audience no longer snickering but many had tears in their eyes.

The first judge, Piers Morgan, said that this was the biggest surprise he had ever experienced in three years doing the show. He proclaimed that Susan’s incredible performance was stunning and he gave her the “biggest yes I have ever given anyone”. Indeed, no one was laughing now. Amanda Holden, the second judge, said it was a major wake-up call for them after being so cynical. She added that she felt privileged to have heard her sing. Finally, Simon who was all smiles during her performance declared that Susan could return to her village with her head held high as she was advancing to the next round of the talent show. Backstage after she performed Susan said she felt “bloody fantastic”. At that point she was crying overcome with emotion and perhaps realizing just how far she had come.

Later in interviews Susan Boyle revealed that she had taken care of her 91 year old mother who died in 2007 and that her mother’s dying wish was that Susan make something of her life. It was her mother’s wish that gave her the courage to compete in the talent search. Now this self proclaimed “never had a boy-friend, never been kissed” woman is beloved by millions and most certainly will get a recording contract. I know I’ll be right there ready to buy her first CD. Seldom does such a feel good, heart-warming story emerge in this day and age. The millions of people who have responded to her realize how very real this woman is. Susan Boyle is an amazing tribute to the resiliency of the human spirit.